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Thursday, January 29, 2009

"Say"

"Take all of your wasted honour"
"Every little past frustation"
"Take all of your so called problems"
"Better put 'em in quotations"
Say what you need to say
(x8)
"Walkin' like a one man army"
"Fightin' with the shadows in your head"
"Livin' out the same old moments"
"Knowin you'd be better of instead"
"If you could only"
Say what you need to say
(x8)
"Have no fear for givin' in"
"Have no fear for givin' over"
"You better know that in the end"
"It's better to say to much"
"Than never to say what you need to say again"
"Even if your hands are shakin' "
"And your faith is broken"
"Even as your eyes are closin' "
"Do it with a heart wide open"
"Wide"
Say what you need to say
(x20)
John Mayer (Say)

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Much

“There is much in the world for us all”
“If only we have the eyes to see it”
“And the heart to love it”
“And the hand to gather it to ourselves.”
L.M Montgomery

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Meeting Yourself

Some people find it easy to strike up a conversation with almost anyone they meet. Others find it hard to greet a passerby in the road! And yet others seem to attract people without any effort at all. And even once you've introduced yourself, and the usual topics for strangers such as the weather and where you might live are exhausted- what then? Does communication just break down? Why should this be the case? What happens to us that we suddenly find that someone potentially interesting or beautiful is causing us distress by mere silence?

OK, so maybe we just don't trust that we are interesting enough or similar enough to be engaged with. And what do you think that person is thinking at that time? The same thing that you are? Possible AND likely!

"Our thoughts are unseen hands shaping the people we meet. Whatever you truly think them to be, that's what they'll become for us." (Richard Cowper)

So what do you think of the person when you meet them?
Maybe some of these look familiar?
-"They look scared that I approached them"
-"They look suspicious of my intentions"
-"They look bored"
-"These are not people that I usually mix with"
-"I hope they don't think I'm weird"
And a whole host of other thoughts as well! Maybe subconsciously?!
"When two people meet there are really six people present. There is each man as he sees himself, each man as the other person sees him and each man as he really is." (William James)
And that, in my opinion, is the best reason to meet people. We ARE different. And sometimes it IS difficult. We come to a person with all our complexities and assumptions. But if we persist and explore it is truly amazing what we can find in another person!
Don't be afraid of rejection. By being afraid of it we are, in effect, rejecting a whole range of people by simply not giving them a chance to 'discover' us!
"Never lose sight of the fact that the most important yardstick of your success will be how you treat other people- your family, friends and coworkers and even strangers you meet along the way." (Barbara Bush)

"Hi, I'm Brett"




Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Mountain

I climbed a mountain.

A place i am already "familiar" with. A beautiful place. I've climbed this mountain once before but this time i succeeded in reaching the summit. It was far harder than i remember or expected. But i achieved the stillness amidst the clouds. And i learnt a valuable lesson along the way.

"I've learned that everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.”

I made a friend along the way. I pushed my limits. I changed my perspective. I admired the views and understood the valleys and paths. I felt what it meant to be small and large at the same time. My body was small but my heart was large. My pain was small but my willpower large.

And i had fun!

I climbed a mountain.